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		<title>Personal Branding Interview: Paula Caligiuri</title>
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Today, I spoke to Paula Caligiuri, whois the author of Get  a Job, Not a Life: Do What You Love and Let Your Talents Work for You, and a Professor in the Human Resource Management  Department at Rutgers University where she has directed the Center for  HR Strategy since 2001. In this [...]


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<p><strong>Today, I spoke to <a href="http://www.paulacaligiuri.com">Paula Caligiuri</a></strong>, whois the author of <em>Get  a Job, Not a Life: Do What You Love and Let Your Talents Work for You</em>, and a Professor in the Human Resource Management  Department at Rutgers University where she has directed the Center for  HR Strategy since 2001. In this interview, Paula discusses work/life balance, why getting a life is better than getting a job, how to layoff-proof your job, how to identify your career, and more.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">Paula, what&#8217;s your opinion on work/life balance? Is there such a thing still?</span></h3>
<p><strong>The word “<span style="text-decoration: underline;">balance</span>” sets up a win-lose competition, usually for time.</strong> I like the phrase work-like harmony to describe the state of maximizing both the desires you have for your career and the desires you have for your personal life.  Yes, I believe there is still work-life harmony, especially among those who have started taking greater control of their careers, designing their lives to include their careers – and not vice versa.  For those who enjoy what they do for a living, the time they spend working is enjoyable and increases life satisfaction; they describe becoming completely absorbed in a work-related activity and losing track of time (i.e., achieving a state of flow).</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">Why should someone get a life instead of a job?</span></h3>
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The title of my book “Get a Life, Not a Job” underscores my belief that <strong>you should <span style="text-decoration: underline;">design your career</span> around your natural talents, abilities and passions, your values, and preferences for how you like to work</strong>.   A job, as traditionally characterized by a 40-hour/week employment situation, takes the control from you and gives it fully to an employer. Your employer controls jobs and configures them, as needed, in order to compete.  You cannot control your job, but you can control your career and, of course, your life.</p>
<p>While the past two generations of professionals have never placed a higher value on fulfilling their passions in their careers, today’s low job security and high unemployment have made them too terrified to leave jobs that are uninspiring but considered “safe,” in their minds.  The result is that too many have become paralyzed and unhappy at work, reducing their life satisfaction for the sake of their jobs.  Not surprisingly, the Conference Board found that 55% of Americans are not satisfied with their jobs.  I wrote “Get a Life, Not a Job” to get beyond outdated ideas about how we define work and jobs to help people completely redesign their careers to be both secure and fulfilling.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">Is it realistic to &#8220;layoff-proof&#8221; your current job?<a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Layoff.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-10747" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="Layoff" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Layoff.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="200" /></a></span></h3>
<p><strong>I believe there is a better approach to providing greater job security but it requires a <span style="text-decoration: underline;">change in your relationship with work</span>, away from the single employer mentality.</strong> I strongly advocate a more self-directed approach where your passions and talents are configured into multiple income streams or career acts. Just as the riskiest financial investment strategy is to have all of your money in one place, the riskiest career management strategy is to have all of your income from one employer.  I believe people should have a portfolio career comprised of multiple income streams or career acts.</p>
<p>If you work for a single employer, unlike the past, your outstanding, reliable, and excellent performance is necessary &#8212; but no longer sufficient &#8212; to shield you from downsizings and layoffs.   If you want to “layoff-proof” your job with a single employer, I recommend that you work in the unit most critical for the success of the organization, and not in ancillary roles and support functions. Much has changed in the way human talent is managed in organizations over the past decade.  Be proactive and own your career destiny within the company.  With so many training budgets being cut, or differentially allocated to those in wealth-creating roles, I would recommend you self-initiate professional development and career moves that bring you closer to the strategic core of the organization.  The greatest shield you can give yourself is to anticipate how your organization is changing strategically – and then build your skills in a unique way to move into a more critical role.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">How does one identify what their career should be and what steps should they take?<a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/careerchange.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-10748" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="careerchange" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/careerchange.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="225" /></a></span></h3>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Self awareness</span> is a big – but not often easy – first step.</strong> Identifying one’s ideal set of career acts takes a healthy understanding of what do you enjoy, how you like to work, your talents, your motivators, and the like.  I want everyone to uncover how to make money doing what they love.  But this process of self-discovery is a bit more challenging than it may seem.   For some people it helps to reconnect with their career dreams; what would you want to be if you could be anything?  Then ask yourself “why”? The answer may shed some light on ideal career acts.   For other people, they have an easier time articulating what they don’t like in work, compared to what you do and that is not a bad place to start.</p>
<p>Then, once you know the goal, work on the plan for getting there. For example, what additional skills do you need? How do you break in?   It helps to talk to a variety of people with the career to which you aspire.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">What are some wealth-building activities that you recommend?</span></h3>
<p><strong>I believe having a <span style="text-decoration: underline;">portfolio career</span>, comprised of multiple career acts, for the greatest professional security and financial freedom. </strong>Career acts can take a variety of forms from small businesses through profitable hobbies.  After dozens of interviews for “Get a Life, Not a Job,” successful portfolio careers were as diverse as the people who occupy them.  For example, Adam is a successful novelist who is a yoga instructor.  Grayson is a cross-cultural trainer who runs a business to help international MBA students succeed in the USA.  Monica is an organizational consultant who is a garden coach and designs websites for small businesses.  Tom is a systems consultant who invents and sells electric bicycles and also owns rental properties.  David is a graphic designer who is also a voice-over professional.<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0137058497?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=pacaph-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0137058497"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-10744" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="getalifenotajob" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/getalifenotajob.jpg" alt="" width="155" height="248" /></a></p>
<p><strong>Multiple career acts build wealth and security because they add more to most people’s number #1 asset, their career. </strong>Examples of career acts include an eBay business, part-time job, profitable hobby, non-executive board seat, franchise, authored book, affiliate links on your blog, weekend jazz trio, etc.  The possibilities are endless but all rooted in what you enjoy doing, your talents and the way you like to work.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">How would the portfolio approach you suggest in “Get a Life, Not a Job” help improve one’s personal brand?</span></h3>
<p><strong>If you manage your <a href="http://http://personalbrandingblog.wordpress.com">personal brand</a> across multiple career acts you are better able to fully develop your public image. </strong>Through multiple career acts, you have more ways to demonstrate skills and build a network.   Your personal brand becomes more interesting and distinctive when it is expressed through the multiple career acts of a portfolio career.   In most cases, employers are attracted to candidates who bring a greater diversity of demonstrated talents to their roles, viewing them as possessing more skills and abilities from which to draw in the future.  When well-orchestrated to be true to yourself, multiple career acts will improve your personal brand.</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/paulacaligiuri.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-10745" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="paulacaligiuri" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/paulacaligiuri.jpg" alt="" width="137" height="169" /></a><br />
<strong>Paula Caligiuri, Ph.D.</strong> is the author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0137058497?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=pacaph-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0137058497"><em>Get a Job, Not a Life: Do What You Love and Let Your Talents Work for You</em></a> (FT Press, 2010).  She is a Professor in the Human Resource Management Department at Rutgers University where she has directed the Center for HR Strategy since 2001. <a href="http://www.paulacaligiuri.com">Dr. Caligiuri</a> has been recognized as one of the most prolific authors in the field of international business for her work in global careers, international human resource management, and global leadership development. For human resource management professionals she has also written (with Steven Poelmans) Harmonizing Work, Family, and Personal Life (Cambridge Press, 2008) and (with Dave Lepak and Jaime Bonache) Managing the Global Workforce (Wiley, 2010). Dr. Caligiuri has covered career-related topics for CNN and has hosted a pilot for a television show, CareerWATCH. She holds a Ph.D. from Penn State University in industrial and organizational psychology.</p>


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Today we&#8217;re going to uncover what makes you uniquely you. We&#8217;re going to go through your vision, purpose, values, goals, and extract the core of your personal brand.
This worksheet is a slightly adapted version of the original by Meg Guiseppi, a good friend of mine and a leading Personal Branding Expert for executives.
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<p><strong>Today we&#8217;re going to uncover what makes you uniquely </strong><em><strong>you</strong></em><strong>. We&#8217;re going to go through your vision, purpose, values, goals, and extract the core of your personal brand.</strong></p>
<p>This worksheet is a slightly adapted version of the original by <a href="http://executiveresumebranding.com/">Meg Guiseppi</a>, a good friend of mine and a leading Personal Branding Expert for executives.</p>
<blockquote><p>Save your answers in a document on your computer so you can revisit and tweak them later. Your answers here form the foundation of all of your future marketing communications.</p></blockquote>
<p>I&#8217;ve included my own answers along the way as examples. Let&#8217;s get started!</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">Your personal branding worksheet</span></h3>
<p><strong>1. What is Your Vision?<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/leeroy09481/518060137/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10702" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="518060137_be371f9711" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/518060137_be371f9711-300x199.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="119" /></a></strong></p>
<p>Before clearly defining your brand, look externally at the bigger picture of your vision for the world. What is your ideal vision of what the world could be?</p>
<ul>
<li><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">My vision is of a</span><span style="font-weight: normal;"> world where everyone does what they love, increasing happiness and creativity across the globe.</span></strong></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>2. What is Your Purpose?</strong></p>
<p>Now that you have an external goal, look internally: how you can you help the world realize your vision?</p>
<ul>
<li>My purpose is to connect passionate people to each other so they can collaborate on meaningful projects.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>3. What Are Your Values and Passions?</strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/9473541@N02/2289060327/"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-10703" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="2289060327_8881445841" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/2289060327_8881445841.jpg" alt="" width="240" height="160" /></a>You have to know yourself and what you want and need before you can move forward. Your belief system and operating principles determine whether an opportunity in front of you will be a good fit. If your passions aren’t met, you probably won’t be happy. What are your passions and values?</span></strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">My passion is h</span><span style="font-weight: normal;">elping talented people use the web to build their brand and connect to the people they need to achieve their goals.</span></strong></li>
<li>My values are <em>simplicity</em> (I spend time doing the things that fire me up and delegate the rest), <em>tangible goals</em> (I break down abstract projects into the actionable items needed to achieve them), and <em>relationships</em> (business is people talking to people &#8211; I never see competitors, only collaborators).</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>4. What Are Your Goals?</strong></p>
<p>Project what you want to accomplish so you can create a strategic action plan to get there. What are your goals?</p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">As CEO of my <a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/brand-yourself-com-launches-platform-to-manage-your-personal-brand-online/">newly launched company</a>, my goals are:</span><br />
</strong></p>
<ol>
<li>In one year, the will be the go-to platform to proactively manage your online reputation and build your personal brand across the web. It will be used by professionals to advance their career online, career coaches and personal branding consultants to help their clients manage their online presence, and by businesses to leverage the individual brands of their employees as marketing tools.</li>
<li>In two years, I will co-develop the social media curriculum for a top-tier University, bolstering my credibility and positively influencing how future generations use the web.</li>
<li>In four years, the company will merge with or be acquired by one of the key players in online career development, to offer peerless, integrated services for personal branding, online reputation management and career success.</li>
</ol>
<p><strong>5. What Are Your Brand Attributes?<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/39839019@N02/3908284450/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10705" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="3908284450_c9db825bcb" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/3908284450_c9db825bcb-300x212.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="212" /></a></strong></p>
<p>What three adjectives best describe the value you offer? What words do you use to define your personality? For example: collaborative, resourceful, flexible, forward-thinking, risk-taking, connected, visionary, diplomatic, intuitive, precise, enterprising, ethical, genuine, accessible. What are your top three brand attributes?</p>
<p>My top three brand attributes (in noun form) are:</p>
<ol>
<li>Communicator: I communicate very clearly</li>
<li>Visionary: I constantly envision what <em>could</em> be</li>
<li>Connector: I consistently engage with new people from deep a desire to connect with everyone I meet</li>
</ol>
<p><strong>6. What Are Your Core Strengths?</strong></p>
<p>In what functions and responsibilities do you excel? What things are you the designated “go-to” person for? What would your company have a hard time replacing if you left suddenly? Examples: identifying problems, seeing the details, leading, delegating, performing analysis, fact finding, crunching numbers, anticipating risk, motivating, mentoring, innovating, managing conflict, writing, listening, communicating.</p>
<ul>
<li>I excel at communicating actionable next steps to achieve a grander vision; I also excel at attracting the right people to collaborate on meaningful projects.<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/itzafineday/2819142725/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10707" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="2819142725_7c29ea0d8e" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/2819142725_7c29ea0d8e-300x199.jpg" alt="" width="210" height="139" /></a></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>7. How Do Other People Describe You?</strong></p>
<p>The true measure of your brand is the reputation others hold of you in their hearts and minds. Notice how they introduce you to others. Ask them what your top brand attributes and core strengths are. How does your self-assessment jibe with their feedback?</p>
<ul>
<li>People describe me as: driven, self-aware, creative, down to earth, musical and magnetic.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>8. What Are Your Weaknesses?</strong></p>
<p>Don’t dwell on your weak points, but keep them in mind so that you don’t move into a position where that function is the main thrust of the job. What are your weaknesses?</p>
<ul>
<li>My weakness is perfectionism. I spend a lot of time making sure things sound exactly right. Sometimes, too much time.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>9. Who Is Your Target Audience?</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/vizzzual-dot-com/2655969483/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10709" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="2655969483_7ab8dc51d4" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/2655969483_7ab8dc51d4-300x199.jpg" alt="" width="234" height="155" /></a>Determine where you want to fit in (industry and niche area of expertise). Learn what decision makers in that field are looking for when they’re vetting candidates. Find out where those decision makers hang out and what key words will attract them, and then position yourself in front of them to capture their attention.</p>
<ul>
<li>My company&#8217;s target audience is <em>passionate</em> people with a <em>clear</em> <em>vision</em> of their future and the <em>drive</em> to get there, but no idea how to tap their network or the web to do it.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>10. What Differentiates You From Your Competition?</strong></p>
<p>Determine why decision makers should choose whatever you’re offering over the others offering similar value. What makes you the best choice? What makes you a good investment? What value will you bring that no one else will?</p>
<ul>
<li>What differentiates me is my ability to imagine what is possible, then attract the people who should be working together to get it done.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>And that’s a wrap on the worksheet. Now it’s your turn! </strong>Start at the top of these questions and start typing your answers in a new document. Often, the hardest part is getting started. So don’t worry if your “vision” doesn’t sound right the first time you write it down. Now that it’s written and out of your head, you can start revisiting it and honing it. It will evolve over time.</p>
<blockquote><p>When you&#8217;re ready, write a blog post about your ten answers to let the world know what you&#8217;re all about. (There&#8217;s nothing like publicly announcing your strengths to motivate you to use them!). Include a link to your worksheet answers in the comments below so I can add it to my list of examples.</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Was this exercise helpful for you? What was the hardest part? Would you add any steps or comments along the way? Leave your thoughts below!</strong></p>
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Today, I spoke to Ivanka Trump, who is an American businesswoman, socialite, heiress,  and fashion model. The daughter of Ivana  and Donald Trump, she is  Executive Vice President of Development &#38; Acquisitions at the The Trump  Organization. She is also The New York Times and Wall Street Journal  bestselling author [...]


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<p><strong>Today, I spoke to <a href="http://www.ivankatrumpcollection.com/">Ivanka Trump</a></strong>, who is an American businesswoman, socialite, heiress,  and fashion model. The daughter of Ivana  and Donald Trump, she is  Executive Vice President of Development &amp; Acquisitions at the The Trump  Organization. She is also The New York Times and Wall Street Journal  bestselling author of <em>The  Trump Card</em>. This is the unedited version of my talk with Ivanka. In the interview, she talks about how to succeed in business, how to identify your passion, what her experiences have been like on social networks, how to stand out at work, how to establish a reputation, advice she&#8217;s learned from her father (Donald Trump), and much more.<br />
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<h3><span style="color: #000080;">What does it mean to play your trump card? Have we all really been dealt a winning hand?<a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/TrumpCard.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10730" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="TrumpCard" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/TrumpCard-242x300.jpg" alt="" width="242" height="300" /></a></span></h3>
<p><strong>Some people have been put in situations, myself included, where we have a world of opportunities that are available to us.</strong> But it’s up to each of us to capitalize off of it. I know many children of privileged parents who do not. They assume that their parents’ relationships are there, their parents’ business contacts are there, and that’s really not the reality. So you know the door may be open for some of us but you know we have to take the initiative ultimately to walk through it. I think as you look at people across the spectrum of experience, and just you know position in terms of the situation that they have been born into I think that you know in life everyone is confronted with a host of opportunities. It’s just whether or not they recognize those opportunities and whether or not they pursue them. I don’t think it’s a healthy attitude to be defeatist. I think successful people are people who recognize that the world is open to them and really push to their passions, so I do believe that we all have a trump card, it’s just identifying what it is and when the opportunity is right.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;"><strong> How do you identify or how does somebody identify their passions which carries from question one?</strong></span></h3>
<p><strong>Through trial and error.</strong> The best examples often of jobs and internships that really play an important role in our lives are those that show us our career paths that we’re not interested in. I worked with an investment bank for three summers and after three summers, I pretty quickly recognized that that wasn’t you know an area that I was too interested in pursuing as a career but I did learn a tremendous amount in the process. It’s just not being afraid to push to that which you’re interested in. I think being in my 20’s and even to my colleagues in their 30’s know this is a unique time in our lives where we’re less likely to be restrained by the requirements and commitments that having a family and having to support that family. Every day I see successful people who are perhaps less educated in a formal sense than somebody in the same industry who are perhaps less just innately intelligent than somebody else who are far more successful because if you’re passionate, ultimately you have the drive to prevail.  I can’t think of any examples of very successful people who aren’t among the most driven people I know and I think that’s what it’s ultimately all about.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>What have your experiences been like using social media tools like Twitter and Facebook? What have you been tweeting about, what reactions have people had, and how has it helped you grow your business?</strong></span></h3>
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<p><strong>I’ve been spending a lot of time thinking about social media and just new ways to reach out to people.</strong> It’s obviously very very effective in that we can reach out to a large amount of people for not a lot of money. In terms of Twitter, I tweet multiple times a day, and sometimes it’s more personal. I don’t think people like to read things that only have the appearance of being totally promotional, but other times it is more promotional. Not in the sense of being too overt but in the sense of you know sending a message about something that I care about that relates to a project that some organization is working on. So whether it’s showing the soon to be completed Trump Hotel in Toronto and asking for people’s feedback or talking about the opening of another Trump property. All of these things are interesting to people. And they are a part of what we do and I get tremendous feedback, which is very helpful so it really is a neat and amazing form of direct marketing. You really get a sense and an ability to interact with who your potential customer is, and also get to know those people who may not be your customers yet, but are aspirational and are hoping to be. So I did a lot of promotion around the book using Twitter, I do a lot for the Trump Hotel Collection and for other residential projects online and I’m spending a lot more time focusing on e-commerce for my jewelry business.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;"> How does someone get noticed at work? What can job seekers do now to stand out?<a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/getnoticed.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-10732 alignright" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="getnoticed" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/getnoticed.jpg" alt="" width="195" height="195" /></a></span></h3>
<p><strong>I always notice the people who work the hardest in terms of their time commitment. </strong>These are the people who are in the office first and the people who are most likely to leave the office. I come in most Sundays and there are a few people that will be here and you remember that as an employer. Additionally, I always notice people who do the jobs that aren’t particularly glamorous or interesting and require tremendous work and time commitment, I&#8217;m thankful that they actively volunteered to take on those tasks. And that’s something that  I think really speaks to team spirit and obviously not everything that one does within a course of a work day is always totally stimulating but often it just needs to get done, so you know I notice the people who volunteer for those types of positions.</p>
<p><strong>It is ultimately about speaking up and making sure that your bosses recognize the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">value that you contribute to an organization</span></strong>, and I think all too often you assume that your superior knows what you’re doing and very often they don’t. It’s very important to connect the dots for your employer and make sure they recognize the real value you’re providing them.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">You talk about creating an identity and a reputation for yourself in your book? Can you explain how someone might do this?</span></h3>
<p><strong>First of all, reputation is something that can <span style="text-decoration: underline;">only be achieved over a course of time</span></strong>. I view it as something that’s very organic. I’m in the process of developing a reputation; I’m too young to have one and I’m quite frankly too inexperienced, so I think as time passes you develop a reputation. As you’re young, you really have to lay the groundwork for who you want to be and how you want to be perceived and that’s largely within your control. Being known for your integrity, being known as somebody who will honor their commitments and honor their word, being known as someone who is motivated, passionate and driven, who is thoughtful all of these things you know I hope that I’m developing that reputation for myself within the industry. Reputation is one of these things that it takes decades to build and takes one stupid act to destroy in the eyes of another. More people should be cognizant of how they are perceived by both their colleagues and their partners.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">What are your top three business lessons that you’ve learned from your father over the years?<a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/donaldtrump.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-10733" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="donaldtrump" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/donaldtrump.jpg" alt="" width="172" height="227" /></a></span></h3>
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<li><strong>Be passionate about what it is that you’re doing. </strong>Because if you’re not, you just won’t have the same level of success as someone who is regardless of your abilities or your instinct.  You really need that passion.</li>
<li><strong>Focus on the details</strong>, whether it’s building a brand or whether it’s building a tower, one needs to focus on the details that go into a larger whole and I think all too often people either get lost in the details or they don’t spend enough time considering them. But when you’re dealing with luxury products, that’s the real differentiator, the quality of product often rolls down to the small considerations. And a great developer is somebody who recognizes and pays attention to those things over and above somebody else.</li>
<li><strong>S</strong><strong>urround yourself with motivated, driven and intelligent people.</strong> I like nothing more than to hire somebody who I perceive as more intelligent than I am. That is a great asset and those are the people we look for so I’m the first to recognize that building a strong company can’t be done alone and it has to be done with the participation of energetic people and I believe we have a lot of those here at the Trump organization.</li>
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<h3><span style="color: #000080;">How were you able to manage an executive role so soon in your career? What obstacles did you face and how did you confront them?</span></h3>
<p>I worked for Forest City Ratner, who was another developer and I worked for him in his Brooklyn office for a year and a half prior to joining my family company. So that was actually just a tremendous learning experience for me but I think one of the things that I recognized is that within the context of another organization, I wouldn’t have the level of responsibility I do here and that in and of itself is a great responsibility. I have to bridge the gap of experience and obviously being you know 28 I may not have the experience on all fronts but it’s up to me to make informed decisions and I have to bridge that gap by talking to people who are intelligent, talking to people who can lend advice on certain subjects if I feel uncomfortable with something and just generally not being you know afraid to ask questions and trying to make decisions that are as informed as possible. It gives me just a great stepping stone to the future because few people are my age and have this level of responsibility and I’m hopeful that over the next few decades that will continue to accumulate and I will be in my 40’s or 50’s with a knowledge base that is pretty unique, just in terms of the amount I’ve been exposed to.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">What have you learned from your role as a judge on The Apprentice? What common mistakes do you see contestants making on the show?</span></h3>
<p><strong>One of the things that continues to amaze me is how <span style="text-decoration: underline;">people don’t learn from their mistakes</span>.</strong> You’ll see time and time again the same people being criticized for the same personality shortcomings or the same professional shortcomings and being unable to grasp the criticisms. They spend a tremendous amount of time defending their actions and not a lot of time reflecting on why those critiques were levied upon them, so that’s something that I just find amazing. Sometimes the conversation with the person is the same and they don’t recognize that they’re constantly getting criticized for the same behavioral patterns.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">You mention negotiating skills are important in your book. How can someone learn to be a better negotiator? What are the benefits?<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Trump-Card-Playing-Work-Life/dp/1439140014/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1268777257&amp;sr=1-1"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10729" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="Trump Card" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Trump-Card-198x300.jpg" alt="" width="166" height="252" /></a></span></h3>
<p><strong>The reality is part of negotiation is instinct.</strong> If you don’t have good instincts and if you don’t have a good ability to read people and understand and cut through to what people’s motivations are, you can get better at negotiation through practice but you’ll never be a great negotiator. I believe that people are born with the ability to be a great negotiator or not and then the rest just comes through experience. But there are obviously things you can do and sometimes if we are moving ourselves from those negotiations, you have to adjust yourself to the person you’re dealing with and sometimes too often I see somebody feeling that they have to be responsible for every negotiation even if the person they are negotiating with is not responding favorably to their personality. So sometimes it’s stepping back and recognizing that you are not the right person to negotiate with the person across from you. I think it ultimately boils down to sizing up the other person, getting to the heart of what the other person is looking to accomplish out of that negotiation.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">Does your father’s actions, whether positive or negative, impact the way you’re perceived in the public?</span></h3>
<p><strong>We’re all identified as a family and naturally we have to develop our own identities </strong>and I don’t think as time goes by we’re co-mingled as regularly but with that said, the actions of me reflect upon my father, the actions of him reflect upon the Trump brand and that’s something that we’re very cognizant of and that’s why we choose to behave ourselves in a certain way and act in a certain way. I want to represent the Trump brand in a way that is positive and in a way that upholds what our values are as a company.</p>
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<strong>Ivanka Trump</strong> is an American businesswoman, socialite, heiress, and fashion model. The daughter of Ivana  and Donald Trump, she is Executive Vice President of Development &amp; Acquisitions at the <a href="http://www.trump.com/">The Trump Organization</a>. Before joining the family business she worked for Forest City Enterprises, and joined forces with Dynamic Diamond Corp., a diamond trading company sightholder, to design and introduce a line of jewelry at the brand&#8217;s first flagship retail store called &#8216;<a href="http://www.ivankatrumpcollection.com/">Ivanka Trump</a>&#8216; on Madison Avenue. She is also The New York Times and Wall Street Journal bestselling author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Trump-Card-Playing-Work-Life/dp/1439140014/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1268777257&amp;sr=1-1"><em>The Trump Card</em></a>. She has been featured on the covers of Forbes, Golf Magazine, Avenue Magazine, Elle Mexico and in the October 2007 issue of Harper&#8217;s Bazaar. She has also placed Number 99 in the Top 99 Women of 2007 and then at 84 in the 2008 edition on AskMen.com. Ivanka co-stars in the hit reality TV show, The Apprentice.</p>


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Your intentions
Lance Armstrong plans his race strategy [...]


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<h3><span style="color: #000080;">Your intentions</span></h3>
<p>Lance Armstrong plans his race strategy before he puts his feet on the pedals. Michael Phelps knows how fast he needs to swim in order to touch the wall first. And, all that planning starts <span style="color: #000080;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>BEFORE</strong></span></span> the race gun goes off.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">Being outcome-minded</span></h3>
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<p>When you are outcome-minded, it doesn’t matter where you start. It doesn’t matter who is doing what – like throwing an elbow or an obstacle in your path. What matters is getting to the finish line in time to enjoy the success you’ve earned.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Where you wind up isn’t dependent on where you start.</strong></span> Horseracing’s greatest moments are when the horse lagging in the back digs down and has a kick that propels him to the finish line faster than any competitor. True, it’s the horse and the jockey working together as a team, so maybe wherever you are in this year so far isn’t all about you. It may be all about the team you rely on, yourself included.</p>
<p>This has been an extraordinarily shocking year for me so far.</p>
<p>I thought most of the changes I was setting into motion would take a long time to manifest results. I was wrong.</p>
<p>I thought it would take more time to assemble a stronger, better team. Surprise! The right people joyfully found me. The wrong people left quietly.  The changes in the team completely changed the game. Now, I am more joyful, which is a nice complement to the other attributes of my personal brand: communication being the most central element. Now it’s joyful communication.</p>
<p>I also underestimated the power of dissatisfaction. I forgot how wearing it is to suffer the imbalance of some people working and other people shirking.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">Few at higher</span></h3>
<blockquote><p>The CEO of the Container Store, one of the most fabulous places on earth, says he hires fewer people at higher salaries than lots of people at average salaries. Why? Because he found that one hardworking person does the work of three average people. So even when he pays double the “going wages,” he nets triple the productivity. He also finally allowed himself to work only with people he really likes, and encourages all his managers to hire with that chemistry in mind.</p></blockquote>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/mind_scratch/2434031231/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10694" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="2434031231_e11977262b" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/2434031231_e11977262b-300x199.jpg" alt="" width="213" height="140" /></a>So now that we are closing in on the last couple of weeks of Q1 2010, don’t worry about where you are now. <em><strong>Get busy with where you want to go.</strong></em> Don’t be concerned if you’re lagging toward the back of the pack.</p>
<p>There’s plenty of space for the race to continue, and for you – with your eyes firmly fixed on the finish line – to win no matter where you started.</p>
<p><strong>Personal brands, give yourself a fresh start for Q2.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Author:</strong></p>
<p><em>Nance Rosen is the author of <a title="Speak Up! &amp; Succeed" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/article/www.nancespeaks.com');" href="http://www.nancespeaks.com/shop.html" target="_blank">Speak Up! &amp; Succeed</a>. She speaks to business  audiences around the world and is a resource for press, including print,  broadcast and online journalists and bloggers covering social media and  careers. Read more at <a title="NanceRosenBlog" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/article/www.nancerosenblog.com');" href="http://www.nancerosenblog.com/" target="_blank">NanceRosenBlog</a>. Twitter name: <a title="nancerosen" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/article/twitter.com');" href="http://twitter.com/nancerosen" target="_blank">nancerosen</a>.</em></p>


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		<title>Personal Branding Interview: Nikki Stone</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 20:17:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan Schawbel</dc:creator>
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Today, I spoke to Nikki Stone, who became America&#8217;s first-ever Olympic champion in  the sport of aerial skiing at the Olympic Winter Games in Nagano,  Japan. She just released her latest book called When  Turtles Fly. In this interview, Nikki talks about her background, how to gain confidence, her inspirations, how to [...]


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<p><strong>Today, I spoke to <a href="http://www.whenturtlesfly.com/index.html">Nikki Stone</a></strong>, who became America&#8217;s first-ever Olympic champion in  the sport of aerial skiing at the Olympic Winter Games in Nagano,  Japan. She just released her latest book called When  Turtles Fly. In this interview, Nikki talks about her background, how to gain confidence, her inspirations, how to take calculated risks, and more.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">Can you tell us more about your professional background?</span></h3>
<p><strong>At the Olympic Winter Games in Nagano, Japan, I became America’s first-ever Olympic Champion in the sport of inverted aerial skiing. </strong>What made this performance so challenging, was the fact that less than two years earlier, a chronic injury prevented me from standing, much less walking or skiing down a slope at almost 40 miles per hour.  This taught me my first big lesson on overcoming adversities.</p>
<p>There were so many skills I learned through my aerial and academic career, and I knew I wanted to help others find whatever their “gold medal” may be.  I still remain involved with the Olympic movement having the honor of mentoring all of the current Olympians through several Games Prep Olympic programs, but the majority of my time is spent traveling around North America speaking to corporate businessmen and women—from Fortune 500 CEOs to individuals just starting out—sharing valuable secrets to success.<br />
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<h3><span style="color: #000080;">What are three things a reader could do today to bring out their inner Olympian?<a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/goldmedal.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10686" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="goldmedal" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/goldmedal-300x268.jpg" alt="" width="242" height="216" /></a></span></h3>
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<li><strong>Take the stress and pressure straight-on by building your confidence. </strong> Start journaling to recognize what you do well and what you can improve.  Each day, write down one thing you did well that day and one thing you could improve on.  It’s often easy to see the achievements and improvements others make, but we have to take the time to recognize that regardless of what we are going through, we can change, too.  Build your confidence by getting to know and appreciate yourself.</li>
<li><strong>Focus on the process, not results. </strong> We need to learn to live in the moment and concentrate on what we have control over.  And that’s the process, not the end results.  For example, we can’t control someone else’s impression of our work; we can only control what we produce.</li>
<li><strong>Be ready to bounce back when you fall down.</strong> Whenever I felt “defeated”, I’d remember a quote from General George S. Patton: “Success is how high you bounce when you hit rock bottom.&#8221; Bounce a Superball (or some other bouncy object) to remind yourself to have a hard outer shell when challenges present themselves.</li>
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<h3><span style="color: #000080;">What inspired you to write your newest book, <em>When Turtles Fly</em>?<a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/achieve.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10687" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="achieve" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/achieve-300x186.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="186" /></a></span></h3>
<p><strong>Growing up, my mother taught me that I could achieve anything I wanted as long as I followed the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Turtle Effect philosophy</span>. </strong> She told me that in order to reach my dreams I had to remember to have a soft inside, a hard shell, and be sure to stick my neck out.  I always held that belief system close and adapted it to every situation I encountered. The philosophy has been such an effective motivator for me that I wanted to help people develop this same confidence and share the tools that are common to those at the top of their given field.  The philosophy holds true for any career or endeavor and I wanted to demonstrate these parallels through the stories of contributors who are at the top of their fields—including Olympic and X-Games gold medalist Shaun White, icon fashion designer Tommy Hilfiger, bestselling author and leadership expert Dr. Stephen Covey, skiing champion Lindsey Vonn, Prince Albert of Monaco, celebrity chef Todd English, NFL quarterback legend Steve Young, Fortune 500 CEOs, Nobel prize-winners, and many more.</p>
<p>We all receive the emails that start, “I am not typically someone who forwards these stories/quotes/anecdotes along, but this one was so powerful/moving that I had to make an exception.”  I wanted to write a book full of the type of stories that move you to action and you can’t help but forward them along.</p>
<p>We all have the choice to be the victim or the victor.  When Turtles Fly will help people on that path to surpass their career plateaus, find the exciting new jobs they’ve been looking for or raise they have been hoping for, stick to their diets, take more risks, build their confidence, develop powerful relationships, take on new leadership roles and work to find their full potential.  The stories in When Turtles Fly will help put everything in perspective for readers and help them see that there is always more to be gained.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">Your new book <em>When Turtles Fly</em> highlights how taking calculated risks can help you achieve success. Give us a glimpse inside.<a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/takerisks.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-10688" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="takerisks" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/takerisks.jpg" alt="" width="231" height="235" /></a></span></h3>
<p>I am terrified of heights, something few people would imagine of an aerial skier who launches herself high in the air at every competition.  I would literally go in the woods and lose my lunch every time I had to do triple back flips.  So why would I put myself through such agony?  For an Olympic gold medal.  I would never fling myself into space just for the fun of it; I needed an incentive.  I knew that I’d have to risk doing one of the most difficult maneuvers in order to impress the Olympic judges and win gold.  When I weighed the positives and negatives, I realized that the nausea, shaky legs and risk of injury were worth it.</p>
<p>Looking back, I believe I still would have made the same decision if my outcome had been a fourth place or even last place finish.  I would have been more disappointed in myself for not trying.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>How do you encourage others to take life-enhancing risks?</strong></span></h3>
<p><strong>Fear of failing actually holds people back more than most other fears.</strong> Ask yourself, “If I knew I couldn’t fail, what would I try?” After you answer this question, ask yourself why it would be so awful to fail at the task or activity.  We learn much more from our failures than we learn from our accomplishments.</p>
<p><strong>Besides, if you don’t try, you have already failed.</strong> Why not give yourself the chance to succeed?  Pick something that scares you a bit, and decide you are going to take the risk to follow through with it today.  The world’s most successful individuals didn’t allow these setbacks to impede their efforts.  You can’t sit around and wait for your success.  Nothing worthwhile comes without effort.  You have to take action in order to make things happen</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/1600376754/ref=cm_sw_su_dp"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10681" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="turtlesfly" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/turtlesfly-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="226" /></a></span></h3>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">Where should readers look for you next?</span></h3>
<p><strong>Both of my parents are cancer survivors. </strong> I know that they are here today because of the advances in modern medicine.  I want to help more families keep their loved ones around, and this is why I’ve decided to donate 25% of my proceeds of When Turtles Fly to the American Cancer Society.  Over the next 2 years I will be attending various ACS events to help raise more funds and awareness for the cause.</p>
<p>I will also be continuing to deliver motivational speeches for corporate groups and educational organizations.  It is an incredibly rewarding job when people share that they have made (or will make) positive changes in their lives because of something I’ve said.  I will also continue to train Olympic athletes and business professionals in speaking/media skills and continue to write articles and columns for a number of magazines, newspapers, and websites—and soon start on my next book.</p>
<p>And lastly, but most importantly, I will spend every spare moment with my toddler Zali.</p>
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<strong>Nikki Stone</strong> became America&#8217;s first-ever <a href="http://www.whenturtlesfly.com/index.html">Olympic champion in the sport of aerial skiing</a> at the Olympic Winter Games in Nagano, Japan. What made this performance so unbelievable was the fact that, less than two years earlier, a chronic spinal injury prevented her from standing, much less walking or skiing off a twelve-foot-tall snow jump that launches aerialists fifty feet into the air. She overcame the injury and went on to earn 35 World Cup medals, 11 World Cup titles, 4 national titles, 3 World Cup titles, a World Championship title, and membership in the Ski Hall of Fame. Nikki is also a magna cum laude graduate of Union College and a summa cum laude masters graduate of the University of Utah. Her aerial retirement is less than restful as she trains Olympic athletes and business professionals in speaking/media skills, coaches personal and professional development courses, hosts group skiing adventures, sits on five different charitable committees, and writes articles and columns for many magazines, newspapers, and websites. Nikki&#8217;s career focus is now on traveling around the world working as a sought-after motivational speaker, sharing her secrets to success by inspiring her business audiences to &#8220;Stick their necks out.&#8221; He book is called <a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/1600376754/ref=cm_sw_su_dp">When Turtles Fly</a>.</p>


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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 12:31:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan Schawbel</dc:creator>
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If your personal brand is the tip of a glacier above water, then a strong network is the large bottom part of the glacier underneath the water. What I mean is that one of the main purposes of building a well-known personal brand is to be able to connect with people around you who have [...]


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<p>If your personal brand is the tip of a glacier above water, then a strong network is the large bottom part of the glacier underneath the water. What I mean is that one of the main purposes of building a well-known personal brand is to be able to connect with people around you who have common goals and ambitions. <a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/your-network-is-your-only-insurance-policy/">Your network is your only insurance policy</a>, and by forging a vast and relevant network, you&#8217;ll be able to become more successful in your career. The third step in the personal branding process, as outlined in my book <a href="http://personalbrandingbook.com"><em>Me 2.0</em></a>, explains that once you have built a brand (based on your passion), you can start communicating through various communities, both online and offline, to grow your platform and expand your relationships. I&#8217;m starting incorporate more networking slides into my presentations (<a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/speaking/">I speak to companies, associations, and universities</a>) because you need to start thinking about your support system constantly (which is the bottom of the <a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/the-personal-branding-success-triangle/">success triangle</a>).</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve narrowed down the art of relationship building and networking into four rules that I would like to share with you today. I promise you that if you follow these rules, or at least some of them, you will be much more successful in establishing relationships with people that can support your career moving forward.</p>
<h3><strong><span style="color: #000080;">1. Mutualism</span><a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/mutualism.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-10571" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="mutualism" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/mutualism.jpg" alt="" width="266" height="201" /></a></strong></h3>
<p>I don&#8217;t know about you, but my favorite science class in college was biology. I wasn&#8217;t a big fan of chemistry and I wouldn&#8217;t even dare to register for physics. In trying to relate relationships between personal brands, the word &#8220;mutualism&#8221; came to mind as an important theme.</p>
<p><strong>Definition (from <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mutualism_%28biology%29">Wikipedia</a>): </strong>a biological interaction between two  organisms, where each individual  derives a fitness benefit.</p>
<p>Mutualism is like a win-win situation, where you help someone else, and are supported in the same regard.  When it comes to networking, mutualism is about reciprocity. If you help me, I&#8217;ll help you and visa versa. Think about the relationship between a sea anemone and a clownfish. The sea anemone provides the clown fish with protection from predators through it&#8217;s tentacles, and the fish defends the sea anemone against butterfly fish, which eat anemone&#8217;s. Think about your relationships in the same way. Ask yourself &#8220;what am I doing for my network&#8221;? And then ask yourself &#8220;have I ever asked for anything in return&#8221;? Please don&#8217;t think this is a transaction. It&#8217;s more of a test to see if you&#8217;re establishing mutualistic relationships where everyone wins. Also, everyone has to win or someone will walk away with a bad taste in their mouth.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">2. Targeting</span></h3>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;"><a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/targeting.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-10572" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="targeting" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/targeting.jpg" alt="" width="267" height="201" /></a></span></h3>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;"> </span></h3>
<p>You&#8217;ve probably heard people explain how you should be friends with everyone. I don&#8217;t think this is humanly possible and feel that it is poor advice. I would rephrase it to state that you shouldn&#8217;t make enemies (at least on purpose) because of how fast negative word-of-mouth can spread in this viral environment we live in. Instead of focusing on the masses, become more targeted with your relationships. Not everyone is going to like you, and if you think they do, then you haven&#8217;t made your mark on society or stood for something controversial yet.</p>
<p><strong>Definition: </strong>connecting with the right people that you&#8217;re geniunely interested in.</p>
<p>The idea for targeting dates back to my post on &#8220;<a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/perform-a-people-search-instead-of-a-job-search/">people searching instead of job searching</a>.&#8221; In that post I explained how you want to be very focused in your job search, and instead of using job boards, go directly to people who can help you get your foot in the door. With targeting for relationships, it works in the same way. You need to pinpoint the people that you&#8217;re genuinely interested in, and attach yourself to them. Trust me, it will be easy if you truly care about the individual and you&#8217;re not trying to use them for some alternative motive.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">3. Giving</span></h3>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;"><a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/giving.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-10570" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="giving" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/giving.jpg" alt="" width="268" height="200" /></a></span></h3>
<p>People like Bob Burg, Gretchen Rubin, Seth Godin, Scott Bradley, Lewis Howes, and others have mastered the subtle art of giving before receiving. I remember the day when I was on the phone with a high profile journalist and author and I told her &#8220;how can I help you,&#8221; before even asking for anything. She was mesmerized and couldn&#8217;t believe that I wasn&#8217;t begging for an interview or for her to make a connection for me. People are so used to being used and abused that when you turn the tides on the relationship, they are more willing to help you even above what you could imagine.</p>
<p><strong>Definition:</strong> showing support for someone else, without asking for anything in return.</p>
<p>The more you give, the more you can create a sense of positive karma around your brand. People will want to support you, lend you opportunities and open up doors. By giving, before receiving, you become a better person and a brand that people want to surround themselves with.</p>
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<h3><span style="color: #000080;">4. Reconnecting</span></h3>
<p><a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/reconnecting.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-10568" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="reconnecting" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/reconnecting.jpg" alt="" width="267" height="200" /></a>A lot of people have difficulty with growing and maintaining their relationships, especially online.  If you aren&#8217;t constantly reconnecting with people, you will fall out of mind and space. By keeping in touch, whether it&#8217;s a phone call, text message, Skype chat, instant messaging, social networking or other, you can further develop a relationship and make it bloom (create a new opportunity).</p>
<p><strong>Definition:</strong> maintaining a connection with others and never losing touch.</p>
<p>Have you ever lost touch with someone? If you take a week to answer someone&#8217;s voicemail, delay your interview follow-up for a few days, or touch base with a long lost friend after a decade, what do you think their response will be. I bet they will either disregard your communication attempt or be caught off-guard and respond hesitantly. The point is that you need to target the right group of people to surround yourself with, and cater to them constantly, without long intervals of no communication.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">Your  turn</span></h3>
<p><strong>Are you following any of these four rules of relationships? What are you having the most difficulty with?</strong></p>


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		<title>Personal Branding Interview: Heather Cabot</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 19:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan Schawbel</dc:creator>
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Today, I spoke to Heather Cabot, who is the Founder &#38; Publisher of The Well Mom, and the Web Life Editor for  Yahoo!. In this interview, Heather explains how she came up with her brand, how she transitioned from a job at ABC News to being a mom, the communication skills that she gained [...]


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<p><strong>Today, I spoke to <a href="http://thewellmom.com">Heather Cabot</a></strong>, who is the Founder &amp; Publisher of The Well Mom, and the Web Life Editor for  Yahoo!. In this interview, Heather explains how she came up with her brand, how she transitioned from a job at ABC News to being a mom, the communication skills that she gained at ABC to establish her new career, and more.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">How did you come up with the idea for The Well Mom?  Do you consider it your personal brand?<a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/thewellmom.gif"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10559" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="thewellmom" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/thewellmom-300x85.gif" alt="" width="300" height="85" /></a></span></h3>
<p><strong>I came up with the name and the concept for The Well Mom after an inspiring lunch with a longtime friend and successful entrepreneur </strong>(Grace Niwa of <a href="http://www.niwapr.com/index.php">Niwa PR</a> and New Asian Cuisine) about 3 years ago.  I was telling her that it had been a year since leaving my network job and despite some freelancing, I was still trying to figure out what I wanted to do next professionally. I had been interested in wellness and motherhood and was even thinking about getting certified as a fitness trainer to build a business around moms when Grace asked me why I wouldn&#8217;t want to write about it instead? She encouraged me to investigate the mom space and consider doing a newsletter and maybe a book. On the way home, I started thinking about the monthly &#8220;well baby&#8221; visits to the pediatrician and the fact that despite all the changes I had been through, once I was discharged by my own doctor 6 weeks after giving birth, that was pretty much it until my next check up.  (This is the norm for most new mothers and one of the reasons it is so important for family members to be familiar with the signs of PPD.)</p>
<p>Thankfully,  I did not suffer from postpartum depression. But I definitely struggled with my identity shift to motherhood and the transformation of my life (body, schedule, career, friendships, etc) and I had been craving some &#8220;well mom&#8221; support and follow up &#8211; especially during that first year of motherhood.  That&#8217;s how it happened. I do consider it my personal brand and personal mission. I also represent Yahoo as a digital trends and lifestyle expert and there is great synergy in that I often get to research and discuss topics which focus on ways to use technology to streamline, simplify and enhance our lives.</p>
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<h3><span style="color: #000080;">Was it hard to go from your ABC News anchor job to being a mom?  What do you miss?<a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/abcnews.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-10560" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="abcnews" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/abcnews.jpg" alt="" width="168" height="168" /></a></span></h3>
<p><strong>I had a very unusual transition because my husband took a new job in Los Angeles right after the twins were born.</strong> We moved from NYC when they were 11 weeks old.  So I had new parenthood, a new city and a new identity to contend with all at the same time.  It was very hard.  I think I really missed covering the news most during the presidential campaign. It was the first time in more than 15 years that I was watching a major election season unfold from the sidelines.  On the other hand, it was wonderful to know that I would be home to vote (and bring my kids to the polls!) and that I could actually watch all the coverage I wanted and read everything as a citizen.  Along the way, I was  lucky to meet some fellow ex-TV newswomen turned full-time moms who totally related to what I was going through. That was helpful. My husband was and continues to be a constant support.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">After having twins, how did you change your career to adopt to your new situation?</span></h3>
<p><strong>I looked for opportunities that would enable me to use my reporting and writing skills without having to be on call 24/7. </strong>Once I let go of the idea that I had to return to a network correspondent slot or local news anchor job, etc., the world opened up for me.  I started building my site, learning about web navigation, SEO, intellectual property and privacy law and suddenly, I was invited to represent Yahoo.  Shortly after, I was approached to write a weekly blog for The Huffington Post.  The new career just kind of came together and it continues to evolve. And by the way, I have met the most inspiring and amazing people since launching The Well Mom. The people I have met have been the BEST part!!!</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">What does it mean to be a &#8220;well mom&#8221;?</span></h3>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;A &#8220;<span style="text-decoration: underline;">well mom</span>&#8221; is someone who knows that to be the best caregiver you can be, you&#8217;ve got to care for yourself.&#8221;</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Whether it&#8217;s scheduling in exercise every day or packing yourself a sandwich because you know you won&#8217;t have time to eat or making time to see a friend for a walk or coffee, or saying to your partner, &#8220;Can you please watch the kids for a half hour while I run out to do X for myself,&#8221; a &#8220;well mom&#8221; makes herself a priority.  I will admit, I am just as guilty as the next mom of not doing this enough. I really launched The Well Mom as a pep talk for myself just as much as everyone else.  It is HARD to remember yourself when you are juggling everyone else&#8217;s needs. Some weeks I do better than others. As I write this, I am recovering from a bout of strep throat.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">What communications skills did you master as an anchor that have helped you in your new career?</span></h3>
<p>I think the best advice I ever got about on-air presentation was from a voice coach I worked with while I was at ABC. Her name is <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/pspublicspeaking">Priscilla Shanks</a>.  She reminded me that at the end of the day, <strong>even if you have the &#8220;best&#8221; voice, the &#8220;right&#8221; look, the &#8220;most impressive&#8221; resume, none of it matters unless  you&#8217;ve got <span style="text-decoration: underline;">confidence in yourself</span>.</strong> You&#8217;ve got to own it and project that to the audience.  Looking back, it sounds like advice for the American Idol contestants.  But it really is true. Self belief is the key to success &#8212; especially in front of the camera.  I think raising my children has helped me gain immense confidence in myself and also has helped me let go a little more and have fun.  She was right on.</p>
<p><strong>As a communicator, I think it is essential that one is steeped in the subject matter one is talking about. </strong> Know your stuff.  I don&#8217;t memorize talking points or a script when I&#8217;m being interviewed.  But I do a tremendous amount of research and preparation and get very involved with the editorial process.   I approach my work as a spokesperson the same way I did when I was reporting.  And if I don&#8217;t know the answer to a question, I don&#8217;t fake it.  I&#8217;m honest and say, that was a great question, I&#8217;ll have to get back to you &#8212; but what else would you like to know?</p>
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<strong>Heather Cabot</strong> is the Founder &amp; Publisher of <a href="http://www.thewellmom.com">thewellmom.com</a>, a weekly e-zine that empowers and inspires moms to better care for themselves in mind, body and spirit. She also serves as <a href="http://video.yahoo.com/people/2913230">Web Life Editor for Yahoo!</a>. Cabot has spent more than 15 years as TV reporter and anchor. Prior to founding The Well Mom, Inc., she co-anchored World News Now and World News This Morning, the overnight and early morning network news broadcasts for ABC News. During her tenure at ABC News, Cabot also reported for Good Morning America, World News Tonight, ABC News Radio, abcnews.com and served as a national correspondent for 200+ local ABC affiliate stations around the country and international partners including the BBC and NHK. While at ABC, she covered major national news events including, the hunt and capture of the DC. She&#8217;s also a contributor to <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/heather-cabot#">The Huffington Post</a>.</p>


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		<title>It’s the Little Things, Stupid</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 12:30:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Emily Bennington</dc:creator>
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I shot a video recently where my first boss said I was “a bit of a mess” out of college. Some people have asked if I was offended by that statement and the answer is absolutely not. For starters, it’s the truth, but – more importantly – if I hadn’t been such a disaster when [...]


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<p>I shot a <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KBY2Pd6xYVk" target="_blank">video</a> recently where my first boss said I was “a bit of a mess” out of college. Some people have asked if I was offended by that statement and the answer is <em>absolutely not</em>. For starters, it’s the truth, but – more importantly – if I hadn’t been such a disaster when I entered the workforce, I probably wouldn’t have discovered the path I’m on now.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/cmogle/3077946485/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10549" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="3077946485_6c8cdfe841" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/3077946485_6c8cdfe841-238x300.jpg" alt="" width="143" height="180" /></a>If you’re curious, here are just a few of my rookie mistakes:</p>
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<li>I wore blazers over tube tops in the office… and thought I was being chic.</li>
<li>I showed up late.</li>
<li>When I did arrive, sometimes I had wet hair and/or no make-up.</li>
<li>I turned in work plans in French Script font.</li>
<li>I hung out with an office smoker and accompanied her on “breaks” that lasted 15-20 minutes at a time.</li>
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<p>Sad, I know, but here’s the catch. I was lucky enough to have a great mentor who saw potential in me and took the time to help me become a better, more polished professional. One of the biggest lessons I learned from him at the time was the art of “Gene Kelly Dance Steps.”</p>
<blockquote><p>You may not know who Gene Kelly is but, suffice it to say that in the Golden Age of Hollywood, Kelly was considered the best dancer in the business. However, he wasn’t <em>actually</em> the best dancer. Others in the industry were more naturally gifted, but Kelly stood out because he was a tireless student of “the incremental edge.”</p></blockquote>
<p>The incremental edge is a series of seemingly “little” things that build up over time to make someone outstanding at what they do. For Gene Kelly, it was the perfect crease of his pants, a signature tip of the hat, a “look” to the camera, etc. that added up to<strong> make his dancing <em>appear</em> effortless</strong>.</p>
<p>As a young professional, my career really turned a corner once I picked up the art of Gene Kelly Dance Steps. I obviously wasn’t tipping any hats in the office, but I did begin to:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bootbearwdc/1136824072/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10551" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="1136824072_21d7efddef" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/1136824072_21d7efddef-300x240.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="144" /></a></p>
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<li>Send handwritten thank you notes</li>
<li>Keep a pristine work space</li>
<li>Dress like someone with a future at my company</li>
<li>Turn in assignments early</li>
<li>Adopt a new, professional-looking font choice</li>
<li>Extend small courtesies to coworkers, e.g. offer a favorite caramel latte, refill the copy paper, knock before barging in, stand when being introduced, etc.</li>
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<p>None of these actions – if taken alone – would have done much to improve my negative personal brand at the time but, collectively, they were very powerful in overcoming the initial perception that I wasn’t taking my career very seriously. And that’s the point of the incremental edge. It’s not about grand, sweeping gestures. It’s little things that, when taken together, equal big success.</p>
<p><strong>Author:</strong></p>
<p><em>Emily Bennington is the author of Effective Immediately: How to  Fit In, Stand Out, and Move Up at Your First Real Job. She hosts a  popular blog for career newbies at <a onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/article/www.professionalstudio365.com');" href="http://www.professionalstudio365.com/" target="_blank">www.professionalstudio365.com</a> and can be found on  Twitter <a onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('/outbound/article/www.twitter.com');" href="http://www.twitter.com/EmilyBennington" target="_blank">@EmilyBennington </a>or via email at  ebennington[at]msn[dot]com.</em></p>


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		<dc:creator>Roger Parker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Chapter titles can become powerful tools for selling more copies of your book and building your personal brand. Each chapter title should tell not only what's in each chapter, but stress how readers will benefit from the chapter contents. Chapter titles from Writing that Works, which has sold over 110,000 copies, are used as examples. 


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<p>Like the title and subtitle of your book, each chapter title can help you sell more books while building and promoting your personal brand.</p>
<p>Each chapter title provides you with a valuable opportunity to convince prospects that your book offers excellent value, while reinforcing your subject area expert position as a valuable resource to help prospects solve problems or achieve desired goals.</p>
<blockquote><p>Experienced authors pay as much attention to choosing the right chapter titles as they do to choosing book titles and subtitles.</p></blockquote>
<p>Chapter titles can play a make-of-break role in a prospect&#8217;s decision to either start a relationship with you by purchasing your book or putting your book down, or clicking away, to see what else is available.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong></strong></span><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Writing-Works-Communicate-Effectively-Business/dp/0060956437/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1267992367&amp;sr=8-1"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-10542" title="Writing-that-Works-TWO5" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Writing-that-Works-TWO5.jpg" alt="" width="126" height="191" /></a></p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">Learning from the successes of others</span></h3>
<p>One of the best ways to learn how to write a successful book and build a strong personal brand is to learn from the successes of others. In this case, I recommend taking a look at the current edition of <strong>Kenneth Roman</strong> and <strong>Joel Raphaelson&#8217;s <a title="Amazon link to Kenneth Roman and Joel Raphaelson's Writing that Works: How to Communicate Effectively in Business" href="http://www.amazon.com/Writing-Works-Communicate-Effectively-Business/dp/0060956437/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1267989069&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank">Writing that Works: How to Communicate Effectively in Business</a></strong>.</p>
<p>This is the 3rd edition of a classic that has sold over <strong>110,000 copies </strong>during the past 20 years. After all these years, <em>Writing that Works </em>is still within the top 20 book in its field and has never been out of print since it first appeared.</p>
<p><strong>What makes Writing that Works so successful?</strong></p>
<p>Like many books, it has wonderful content, concisely communicated in a friendly and engaging manner. <em>But, often, that&#8217;s not enough! </em>Many good books don&#8217;t sell a small fraction of the number of copies of Writing that Works that are sold each year. <em><br />
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<p>One of the most obvious differences that sets <em>Writing That Works </em>apart is the caliber of the chapter titles.</p>
<blockquote><p>Each chapter title is an <em>benefit-oriented advertisement </em>that provides <em>another reason to buy the book</em>!</p></blockquote>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">Examining Writing that Works&#8217; chapter titles</span></h3>
<p>Let&#8217;s take a look at some of <em>Writing that Works&#8217;</em> chapter titles:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/innovision/3563852232/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10544" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="3563852232_2acd899f34" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/3563852232_2acd899f34-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="120" height="180" /></a></p>
<ul>
<li>Memos and Letters that Get Things Done</li>
<li>Plans and Reports that Make Things Happen</li>
<li>Fund-raising and Sales Letters that Produce Results</li>
<li>Recommendations and Proposals that Sell Ideas</li>
<li>Writing a Resume&#8211;and Getting an Interview</li>
<li>Writing for an Audience: Presentations and Speeches</li>
<li>Making it Easy to Read</li>
</ul>
<p>Notice, in each case, that a description of each chapter&#8217;s topic is paired with the benefit that readers will gain from the chapter.</p>
<p>One of the first things that prospective book buyers do in person, or when viewing a book online, is to click the <em>Look Inside</em> or <em>Search Inside</em> links which permits them to view the book&#8217;s table of contents and back cover.</p>
<blockquote><p>Hint: When exploring books displayed at Amazon.com or Barnes &amp; Noble.com, get in the habit of clicking the <em>Look Inside </em>or <em>Search Inside </em>links attached to the image of many book covers. You&#8217;ll be able to view the front and back covers at higher magnification, as well as read the table of contents and sample content.</p></blockquote>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">Conclusion</span></h3>
<p>Don&#8217;t take chapter titles for granted! Don&#8217;t just tell what&#8217;s in each chapter, use the chapter title to tell why the chapter is important and how the chapter will benefit the readers. Think of each chapter title as an additional advertisement, or sales pitch, for your book. If you do this, your book&#8217;s table of contents will become a strong sales tool by itself, attracting search engines and readers interested in using your book to solve a problem or achieve a goal.</p>
<p><strong>Author:</strong></p>
<p>Best-selling author and book coach Roger C. Parker, helps business professionals plan, write, promote, &amp; profit from a brand-building book at <em>his <strong><a title="Roger C. Parker's Published &amp; Profitable daily writing tips blog" href="http://blog.publishedandprofitable.com/" target="_blank">daily writing tips blog</a></strong>. </em>His next book is <a title="Roger C. Parker's #Book Title Tweet: 140-Bite-Sized Ideas for Compelling Article, Book, and Event Titles" href="http://www.happyabout.com/thinkaha/booktitletweet01.php" target="_blank"><em><strong>#BOOK TITLE Tweet: 140 Bite-Sized Ideas for Compelling Article, Book, &amp; Event Titles</strong></em> </a>. <em><br />
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<p><strong>Today, I spoke to <a href="http://www.moreorlessinc.com/larry-myler/">Larry Myler</a></strong>, who is an author, business strategist,  and consultant for clients ranging from start-ups to Fortune 500  companies. For much of his career he has energized companies with new,  concrete methods for reducing expenses and increasing revenues.  His latest book is called <em>Indispensable  By Monday</em>. In this interview, Larry talks about his start-up experience, how his personal brand has opened doors, his view on social media, and more.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">You&#8217;ve been involved with six start-ups &#8212; do you find any similarities between one start-up and another? Is every new venture unique?<a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/startupcompany.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-10530" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="startupcompany" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/startupcompany.jpg" alt="" width="227" height="172" /></a></span></h3>
<p>I have had an interesting career in that each start-up I have participated in has been in a different industry.</p>
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<li><strong>In some ways each new company has been unique: </strong>Industries have their own distinctive products and services, customers, economies, competitors and success measures.</li>
<li><strong>In other ways every startup is the same: </strong>No matter the industry, earnings must outweigh expenses, you have to find the right people for the right positions, customers must feel like they’re getting more than they expect, and—as a business owner— you had better love what you do.</li>
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<h3><span style="color: #000080;">You consult some pretty significant corporations &#8212; what is the biggest thing that they&#8217;re missing in their strategy and vision?</span></h3>
<p><strong>Without fail, leaders at the top of large organizations don’t know everything </strong>they should/could know about what’s happening lower in the org chart. As a result, customers are not served as well as they otherwise would be, employees easily fall into the role of victim, costs are higher than they need to be, and revenues are lower than they could be.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">How has your personal brand enabled you to connect with successful companies?<a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/businesssuccess.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10531" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="businesssuccess" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/businesssuccess-300x206.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="206" /></a></span></h3>
<p><strong>As a consultant, all I have to show prospective clients are my past successes in helping companies become more profitable. </strong>Nothing else matters. While my brand is augmented by my book, past results form the foundation of who I am perceived by the market to be. Ultimately, I’d secretly like to brand myself as “The Profit Guy,” but it’s a little too gimmicky, so I’ll stay away from that one.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">How do you see the role of social media and networking in developing a personal brand? What about in promoting corporations?</span></h3>
<p><strong>The web has opened up a whole new world which is available to even the least socially-minded segments of society. </strong>It has evened the playing field between those who have money and those who don’t; and it offers a never-before-available possibility of exposure and personal promotion to anyone who engages it. What we find, however, is that most people don’t fully comprehend the power and reach of this digital realm, much less how to access and take advantage of it. The holy grail of personal branding is to get third party, respected sources to say about you what you would want said about you. The internet not only makes this possible—it makes it easy!</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">What about in promoting corporations?</span></h3>
<p><strong>Remember when it was acceptable in business to not have a website? That didn’t last long. </strong>Now your organization has zero credibility without one—and it had better be a great one. The same can now be said about companies who don’t play an active role in the collective conversation that <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Indispensable-Monday-Profit-Producing-Behaviors-Yourself/dp/0470554770/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1268429868&amp;sr=1-1"><img class="alignright size-full  wp-image-10529" title="indispensablebymonday" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/indispensablebymonday.jpg" alt="" width="141" height="216" /></a>customers are having about them. Corporations must be proactive in putting the right content into the proper channels, as well as responding to changing customer preferences that can be discovered more quickly than ever before through those channels. To sit back and just watch what happens without playing an active role is the kiss of death, and will become more so in the days to come.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #000080;">What does the future have in store for <a href="http://personalbrandingblog.com">personal branding</a>, do you think?</span></h3>
<p><strong>Who we are, and what others think they know about us</strong> (our skills, accomplishments, weaknesses, claims to fame, potential, personality, etc.), will be made available to more people in greater detail because of the connectedness of our world…maybe. It’s all up to us. Those who will be the most successful at creating positive personal brands will gain that success in two ways: First, they will master the art and science of moving information through the internet; and second, they will create valuable intellectual property that they give away for free. If you can establish channels and then insert valuable and free content into those channels, then you can monetize your brand in wonderful and lasting ways throughout your career.</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;<a href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/larrymyler.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10528" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="larrymyler" src="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/larrymyler-201x300.jpg" alt="" width="107" height="159" /></a><br />
<strong>Larry Myler</strong> is an author, <a href="http://www.moreorlessinc.com/larry-myler/">business strategist</a>, and consultant for clients ranging from start-ups to Fortune 500 companies. For much of his career he has energized companies with new, concrete methods for reducing expenses and increasing revenues. Larry has been involved in six start-ups, and is acutely aware of the nuances of business that lead to success. Larry’s new book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Indispensable-Monday-Profit-Producing-Behaviors-Yourself/dp/0470554770/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1268429868&amp;sr=1-1"><em>Indispensable By Monday</em></a>, extends his expertise and vision to employees at all levels, teaching them how to add financial value to their employers—thus protecting their jobs in hard times, ensuring promotions in good times, and helping them rise above the competition in any job-seeking crowd. Larry has a BS in psychology from Brigham Young University, and an MBA with an emphasis in international business from the University of Utah.</p>


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